Nollywood Actress, Lizzy Anjorin Shares Opinion On Friendship
With the growing rate of hate and back stab amongst friends, Nollywood actress, Lizzy Anjorin has taken to her gram to offer advice as regards that.
Lizzy, who has become an inspirational writer advised against keeping friends. She regards those who keep friends as puppet and cowards. Lizzy did not also fail to associate failed marriages and relationships to friendship. The actress believes that most marriages with prospect that suddenly crumbled is as a result to keeping external parties (Friends). Adding that friends are like attractive food, cooked with green frog, which has nothing to give to the body system rather than poison.
“If you don’t reduce the number of friends you keep, number of happiness might reduce in you. Statistically, there is no age that reduce hate in women, women are their own enemy regardless of age or status. Some women hate seeing their fellow women being happy or living large. Especially, when you table the beginning of your happiness; they will be the one to pray for you, some will even call your attention to fasting and prayer, but let God say amen to your prayer, the boiling point of anger and hate in the same friends praying for you will rise to red point. They will start calling you names and start spoiling you with the little secret they know about you or huge fabricated lies just to see you crumble.
Why do you need friends? My opinion is; it’s only puppet and coward that belief in friends. Friends are like an attractive food, cooked with green frog, it has nothing to give to your system than poison. When you are happy, pretend as if you are not. When you have butter tell them it’s an expired one, because they will go to any length to put sand in your butter. You can imagine how women hate their fellow women so much on social media now. Imagine what some friends will do in real life? I don’t expect some women to be pained and miserable that much, life is turn by turn. How can some ladies derive so much joy in evil? Some don’t have money, time, data for something meaningful except miserable things.
If you make your fellow woman go through pains because of inferiority complex in you, you will pay in million folds. Note, the number of your good deed among people will definitely determine your own happiness and success in life.
Many healthy marriages crashed and some productive relationship collapsed because of the HATE their friends injected in their fellow women’s relationship and that’s why some women will be in agony till the rest of their life. God is not maga, what you sow is what u will reap. You don’t need to table your happiness in the midst of your friends because some of them have experienced love for ‘donkey years’ but will act as if they are okay but of course, they are waiting for you to reveal the koko behind your happiness.
Some women need to reduce the hate in them before it drags them to mold of shame.”